Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Restu



Again, the fav topic of all time. Kahwin. dang dang dang!

hahhaa. pagi tadi when i was on the way nak pegi keje..(oh yes, dtg keje finally after 2 days of mc. bad flu bad fever n bad pms..grrr~) the topic was so exciting that me, Ksheela n Sue was listening hard on it. hahaha. its about a girl, y nak kawen, but ironically cant bcoz the parents tak favour budak lelaki itu. n put up a very high hantaran so that the boy cudnt afford to masuk meminang lah. easy to say, tak restu lah kan. erm, so the girl's frens (note: frens means same age or sebaye or skepale or so wateva, they are BOYS n GIRLS y tak mature lah kot) suggested to her to keep it with their plan n get married. oh how stupid. nak nikah without restu mak ayah lah ni? then, popped out so many smses and calls y positively supporting the parents. ni lah y ak nak dengar, they must have reasons knape taksuke or nak tolak or nak reject org y dah jatoh hati chenta kat anak dorang. then there was a caller, cite pengalaman beliau..kawin without blessings n suffered almost a year..dari idup senang jadik susah, dari takde masalah ditimpe mcm2 bala. what she did was, lepas stahun, pegi salam peluk cium mak ayah..dapatkan restu then they live happily until now (almost 12years dah kot). hmmm..tibe2 ak tepikir, susah jugak nak dptkan restu kan? susah. ak tau susah n the truth hurts. camne kite yakin skalipun. if he's not urs. then the only thing u can do is to let go. ade jodoh y lebih baek untuk die. aminn..

talking about restu-merestui ni..a question menerjah kepala...mmm...camne laa kawan2 ak, haaa korang lah...leh decide nak kawen? ak tahu Syaz, mak die yang suggest, y laen ak rase sume atas usaha sendiri. maybe this is wat they called Seru. ak lom sampai lagi lah kot. eh, camne nak tahu kalo dah sampai? hahahha. lawak seyh. belum belum. seru ak dtg bile duit cukup. hahahhahahaa.

adeh. its a gud morning laugh.

okeh, bye. happy working everybody!


rock on!!!! yeeaahh!!!

13 comments:

AdamX said...

mace sayo.. sayo straight 2 da point.. bgtau kak rena.. "yang.. abg nk masuk miney nih.. buleh dok?" dio pun kata ok.. nasib baik gak cpat.. sbb slps i tunang ade org nk masuk risik kak rena.. terkejut beruk gak.. spupu my biras.. dia xtau kitorang dah bertunang.. jeng jeng jeng!! cuak gak kjap..

beeRamza said...

waahh..thats easy! tp, were u working that time? how old are u? what did her parents say? aaaa...how did u manage with all the cost?

purfhh! banyok soklan..hahahhaa

AdamX said...

ya.. i dah keje dalam 2 tahun.. dpt permanent post.. her parents seem to be happy.. yerla. dah lama kenal.. cost? hahah.. i got my own savings + asb + my mummy sponsored skit.. total damage = totally priceless feelings!! actually kos dpt dikurangkan sbb kitorang wat sdiri hantaran.. design sdiri kad.. cari sdiri hantaran.. xharapkan family.. bukan xharap.. cuma nk rasa the thrills.. kad buat ngan kawan.. fotografi my sis aturkan.. tp cam hampeh.. still guna negatif.. skang tgh kumpul duit nk wat photoshoot in studio.. or buy a DSLR.. waakka

AdamX said...

opss.. maser tu i berumur 23 time nk lamar.. dalam 2006.. hahaha.. 1 april 2007 tunang (not april fool but maulidul rasul time tu) kawen 14 oct 2007... berumut 24 tahun.. skang 2010.. time july 2010 i akan berumur 27tahun, kak rena 25tahun n my son satu tahun 5 bulan!!

beeRamza said...

ok. beha stop baco lpas tgk ayat "dah keje 2 tahun" lalallalalala..weeee~ sapo kijo 2 tahun n ado saving doh ehh?? lalllalala..grrr~ guys nowadays ado ko hok ado savings? they only care about gadgets jah kot loni. n obviously a wife is not a gadget. tokleh upgrade. *gulp. stetment mengundang kontroversi* but no worries. tok ramai baco my blog. hahhahahaa

Asrul Shahril Asnan said...

sapo kato xrama baco blog awk??mmg statement awk tu mengundang kontroversi~~

beeRamza said...

tp my statement is 100% true right?

emh, mungkin ada ore baco, tp tak smuo leh pehey bahso kelate..hahhaha..

i am rite. am i?

edzahid said...

eh eh. sapo kato guys nowadays xdok saving. wak plan nok nikoh awl2 tu..duk kupo pitis lamo doh la. pah gedgets caro jugok, bakal bini keno caro jugok..2 2 keno balance in life orey kato..aha..

beeRamza said...

eishk..beha tok kato...its a question..baco balik oke.."guys nowadays ado ko hok ado savings?" haaa...if ado, pls angkat tange. then sangat lah beruntung uram yam kamu sayam.hhehehehe...

gud gud. balancing is gud. hehhehhe

AdamX said...

mace sayo la.. meme maso blajar lg kumpul duit doh.. pah campur ngan buat bisnes kecil2an maso study dulu.. sayo IT student.. geng2 sayo wat klah komputer, tuisyen ko anok2 jiran sbb kitoram duk umoh sewa luar.. tu xcampur lg bisnes maso bule poso.. jadi ado la saving.. sayo ambik insurance maso umur 18tahun lg.. accident dua kali (ore tepuh) dpt elaun cuti sayo sipey.. pah maso kijo duk sewo umoh bujey ngan geng2 sayo.. xmake luar nih.. masok sokmo.. save banyok doh..

sapio kato maso kawen nih xleh jadi gadget freak.. buktinya.. sayo n kak rena samo2 gadget freak loni.. skang nih kami tgh plan nk beli dslr samo2.. nk masuk klah samo2.. bowoh darwish skali.. plan nya nati nk wedding photography samo2.. pah bukok butik andaman.. buleh duit samo2.. kam baguh gituh!

akuorangbiasa said...

:-) (i say no words here la kam since u know me better) hehehe

Anonymous said...

nice pice.....byr royalti!

SYAZ said...

i saw my name there...
huwah~
alhamdulillah..everything turn out ok eventhou i have 2 went tru a lot..

but thats life...
i always think life relate so much with luck..those with better luck is much luckier n with less luck will b less lucky..either one will have their own obstacles..

tapi papepon..just pray that Allah gives what best 4 u...
kite hanya mampu merancang..tuhan yg menentukan aiitteee????

does it relate 2 ur topic?? huhuhu~
aku pon da blur~